Girl with Answers is a column where our expert staff shares personal experiences and answers to some of your burning questions about girls. Whether you’re curious about what makes women tick, want to learn more about the girl behind that hot pick-up line you just heard, or need advice on how to ask a girl out, we’ve got you covered!

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Kia McCallister-Young, director of America Saves, is amused by girl math and says that “it’s important to be aware of the pitfalls of poor money management.” She recommends saving for short-term goals (like an emergency fund) as well as larger ones, such as retirement.

The best way to get a girl to open up and expand on her answers is by asking open-ended questions. For example, rather than just asking where she got her tattoo, try asking her what made her get it done or what it means to her. This will help her keep from just giving one-word replies and give you some good conversation material.